My name is Chanel my friends call me Chan. I'm 25. I live in the ville(Southern California). love music, movies, reading, and photography. I'm in college my major is history. I love taking photos. I like to take fine art photos of obsolete objects and architecture. Trying to get more comfortable taking portraits. I spend a lot of time at home. Some of my favorite bands are Anberlin, The Maine, Mae, Copeland, Go Radio, Mayday Parade, Taking Back Sunday, The Almost, Paramore, Relient K, The Rocket Summer, Underoath, Thrice, TREOS + so many more...
Your Existing Situation
“Craves change and new things, always looking for new adventures and activities. Becomes restless and frustrated when she has to wait to long for things to develop. her impatience leads to irritability and a desire to move on to the next project.”
Your Stress Sources
“Vulnerable and impressionable and prone to learning new things. Fantasizes of building a perfect relationship with another full of love, trust, and deep understanding. Needs to know people are sincere as she is far to trusting and fears being used and hurt. Needs to know where she stands in relationships.”
Your Restrained Characteristics
“Tries to participate and involve herself in things going on around him; however, avoids conflict and arguments to reduce stress and tension.”
“Seeking to broaden her horizons and believes her hopes and dreams are realistic. Worries she may not be able to do the things she wants and needs to escape to a peaceful, quiet environment in order to restore her confidence.”
Current situation is leaving her doubtful and cautions about becoming intimately involved with others.
Your Desired Objective
“Looking to make a good impression and be recognized for her achievements. she has a strong need to feel appreciated and look up to. she is very sensitive and will be hurt if she is rejected, unnoticed, or not given adequate acknowledgement.”
Your Actual Problem
Works toward building her position and increasing her self-esteem by viewing her accomplishments (and those of others) critically and harsh judgment. Insists on things being straightforward and clear.
Your Actual Problem #2
“Is resistant of outside pressures and control, or anything that stands in the way of her freedom to make her own decisions and plans. Works hard to establish and build her position and status.”
